Everyday Ways YOU Can Help Prevent Child Abuse: Give Away What Someone Needs

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Parents don’t begin their journeys as parents planning to abuse or neglect their children.

Any one of us may think we’re above taking out our stress on our kids until one day, we find ourselves gripped with external pressures and talking to our own children through clenched teeth and with a tone that’s harsher than we’d want anyone to hear.

Usually that’s where it ends but what about when it doesn’t? What about parents whose stress keeps unraveling until they strike out at their children in abusive ways?

Though we could take a close look at risk-factors or study generational patterns, the mission of this series is to empower YOU — the everyday mom, dad, and community member — to step out in simple, doable, everyday ways toward child abuse prevention.

It can be as easy as paying attention in the grocery line and offering a weary mom a cold soda from the checkout cooler.

Or preparing a double batch of dinner so that you can take a meal to a new mom.

Every small kindness can make a difference.

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For this post, let’s consider how financial burdens can especially trigger parents to take out stress on their kids.

Parents both above and below the poverty line suffer from financial stress that piles on top of everyday burdens, threatening the stability of their family and the stability of their emotional health. When that happens, the safety and security of children are also at risk.

When the bills are piling up and the baby is crying.
When the creditors won’t stop calling and the kids won’t stop fighting.
When the bank is threatening to foreclose and the toddler just threw all the shoes in the toilet.

There are so many families in need right around you. Don’t let their middle class-ness or social status fool you. Any family can be one job loss or one costly emergency away from dire financial straits and the stress that results.

In light of this, there are resources you may have that can ease someone’s burden and make a difference.

What we may deem disposable, another family may deem essential.

Who do you know that could use the clothes your kid just grew out of? And if you don’t know of someone, ask your school, church, or after-school program.

What charity or family in need would appreciate the gently-used sofa you recently replaced?

How about the Spiderman bedding your child has outgrown or the non-perishables in your pantry?

These are simple, everyday ways to give what you have right now to change the course of someone’s day and lighten the load of a burdened parent.

And if you’re able to give in other ways, whether it’s a grocery store gift card or paying someone’s utility bill, do it.

Sometimes we hesitate to give because we don’t want to be insulting. But saying something like:

“I noticed your daughter is just a tad smaller than mine and I’d love to find a good home for these clothes she outgrew so quickly. Could you use them?”

If you’re giving something that’s monetary, consider giving anonymously if you’re worried about how it might be received.

Regardless of how you give, remember that your small kindness may go a long way in relieving the burden of an anxious parent and protecting the children in your community.


We hope this post and this series will get you thinking about other everyday ways you can help prevent child abuse in our community.

Join us next Monday and Wednesday for the rest of our blog series during Child Abuse Prevention Month.

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We all have a role to play in the prevention of child abuse. Learn more about what you can do to make a difference at Pickens County First Steps or preventchildabusenc.org.

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Other Posts in this Series

Pay Attention & Buy a Soda

Take a Meal to a New Mom

By Marian Vischer, Communications Coordinator


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